lovely childhood

Its easy for kids to identify good friends at an early age too.

I have noticed that my lil gal  has found good friends around her in her school.

She keeps saying their names , so  I get to know whom she is very fond of.She repeats their names  earlier when I helped her to memorize her friends names , since it was difficult for her to get to know their names , since she was too small..

Now , its like , she  knows whom she likes the most and wanted to be with. It just reminded me about my childhood too. When we all were kids we must have fought for sitting with our best friend , sharing something special with our best buddy , and of course got jealous when someones takes our best friends from us. :)

Now when all those comes to our mind , we find ourselves to be silly and funny.Being a kid is a special freedom , we need not know anything, just play and have fun, be naughty and gets lots of scolding from parents . :) Its not easy to be a grownup. :( and am sad am a grownup , at least I believe it . ;)

As parents , we must give our lil kids freedom  to enjoy the best way .Forcing something on to kids , leads them to be more adamant , we must teach them to be kind and in order for that , we should be kind to them, since they learn a lot from ‘us’ .

For being a good parent , we need to be their lovely lil friend .

A smile is a curve that sets everything straight :)

A smile makes things more beautiful around you. 

You wake up smiling forgetting all the worries you had the past night , that makes your present day better always. Haven’t you noticed when we are in worries and see someone smiling at us, a kind of positive energy fills in us and its like they are imparting a part of their happiness into you. 

Even when we are in worries , keep smiling and face it with all might.Only who are close enough to us , realize a drop of tear behind our smiling face.Its difficult to hide some emotions, and smile is something that comes uncontrollably. When you look at babies, automatically , our face gets  lit with a smile, its a special feeling . 

Its true that people who are always smiling , do not have a happy life all time, they just make it perfect for themselves. 

Just Smile , and forget everything, if something is for you it will come to you, so need not worry and be happy . :)

I need someone who understands me, even when no words are spoken

 

Its feels great when someone understands us without even telling or showing them what we feel.

I have noticed my lil one too to be good at that , whenever am about to get upset withe her, immediately she knows what will be my next reaction , and she either hugs me or give me a lovely kiss…and I just melt off . Just before my facial expression changes  , she captures my feeling , and making me feel better. kids are so sweet at this, a magical thing .

Its the same with other relations, when relations grow stronger, words are never needed, even if the person is not physically present with us, feels that something is wrong and comes to help us.Such people are quite a few and difficult to find , and those who have someone to talk to are the luckiest.

I wonder how it happens , how does someone else who is not connected to our self , knows how do we feel .I have noticed that , my best friend notices am sad , even from the words I type , he/she need not see me  ,that strange , but I love it, when I don’t have to tell and someones knows exactly what I need.

The best person , all of us know who is good at this is our parents, they know the best for us. I have always experienced that , I don’t need to tell my mom , and before that she knows exactly what I want and what am thinking, she is superb at it I can say. I love her for this.

The world needs such people , who realize what exactly the other person needs without them asking .I just feel that is the perfect relation. :) not everyone is gifted.

 

Sick Sick !!!!!

Not me.. kids ,they are always falling sick.And when they fall sick, its totally bad for all. :(

As soon as the winter started , its just I see all around me sneezing and coughing kids.Hope all get better soon(fingers crossed). Its not only me , who is getting trouble time with kids, every parent is complaining about sleepless nights, lots of laundry and cleaning. :(

Life becomes a mess , a total mess when kids are not well. Every simple household work seems like a burden, and takes longer time to get sorted out. Even though we try all preventive measures , everything does not fall in right place.

Sometimes I wonder why we have to fall sick, or our kids. Its so pathetic to see them troubled. Poor them , they can’t sleep , play , I do feel pity for my loving daughter too.I keep trying all possible medicines I get , but sickness seemed to be turning a deaf ear around me and it turns a blind eye towards all medicines and be there for a week or two like an uninvited guest. :P

One day all those dark clouds will move out and all kids can be happy playing around.Am just waiting for that day to come. :)  Maktub

Naming !!!!

A big headache after my daughter was born ,was about naming her, I had exactly 28 days for the same , and had to choose a good one. 

Its so difficult to choose names , from those given by other people , since , we have to make sure that , choosing a name do not lead to upsetting others. Everyone are fond of babies and all of them tend to suggest names ,for confused souls like me. Since I never had a prepared anything.

I sat and started to check for the best ones, many names were coming up in my mind but some or the other suggested the same to me.I didn’t want to name my kid , some name , but something special ,and I finalized on a few names. Then , my mom came up with some letters to start the name from an astrologer , and the funny thing was that , the names I selected matched none. :)

I was left with 5 more days now, time was running faster than I thought, And at-last , I found a name , which was indeed special , quite related to  Lord Krishna ,and meaningful. ‘Nandana’ which meant ‘Delighting’ , ‘pleasing’. 

Nowadays , as one of my friend said , choosing a name is not a big deal but  what it turns out to be later is something that has to be kept in mind. :) 

Family Time

After celebrating my sixth wedding anniversary , I still feel like just got wedded the year before. The same ‘me’ and my partner , we fight and love the same way.Our daughter  was like my anniversary gift to our family , we expected her to be born around the same date, but anyways not that late.

Nowadays , divorces are becomes more frequent and everything changes between couples soon after marriage. A few gets adjusted , its not only women but men too , need to appreciate men with lots of patience too, since GOD has gifted patience to women more .:)  it seems.

When a child is born, the couples are transformed into parents , not then , but gradually  ,the feeling spread through their soul.The feeling of love transforms into another form , which is bonded by the child. Kids play a vital role in keeping the family together, nobody can sacrifice the happiness of their lovely little kids .

The whole world is running around, and family gets less time. Everyone needs to sacrifice few things for you family. Noting is gained without loosing.Many of us as kids must have experienced negligence from their parents ,as they were busy gathering things for us.But of course , a few must have got enough attention that , they might feel like being bugged by their parents. 

As a parent , I realize , how important my time is for my kid.There are many temptations around me , that drags me into it and I tend to leave her dong something alone , but I know I need to change it.Hopefully one day . :)

Better late than Never. 

Am I the doing right ??

 

Everyone will have this question popping up in their mind once at least.

I do think of it most of the time and end up saying that if others can do it , may be I can too. I realized that once we decide that we are never going to fail and want to achieve it , no matter what happens , we can do it.

It simply requires strong will power. Nothing is a born talent in any person, if we decide to do it in our way, we can. Hard work can pay us. Any person , who knows the taste of hard work , will never stop doing it and of course they achieve it too.

The story in ‘Alchemist’ also conveys a simple truth that its all about will power and how strong we dream to achieve it , that leads us to success. And once we decide to do it , whatever comes in our path take it as a challenge and follow it until you succeed.

Its so common that , if one chose to do something new , we all receive only negative responses . But its best to follow what our heart says.If great people had listened to all the negative responses they got , we never would have such a wonderful world with highly developed technologies to live with.

Every path we choose has success and failure. But taking failure as a new positive sign continuing takes good courage.

“Believe you can and you’re halfway there” – Theodore Roosevelt